"There are two tragedies in life: one is not to get your heart's desire. The other is to get it."
~ George Bernard Shaw

This, gentle readers, is in my own humble opinion complete and utter hogwash. The greatest tragedy in life is to be oblivious to one's heart's desire.

Here he is, dear, sweet, thoughtful and generous man that he is, and yet I wonder whether he will ever truly be here with me; whether there is a here anymore; whether, having reached my destination, I am surprised to find where that destination actually is.

And in a word: s'wonderful.

Keep sending the positive thoughts, y'all...and as a dear friend sympathized: "Heaven help him."